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Which ring do you wear first? Your engagement then wedding band or the other way?

December 16th, 2009
Stacie asked:


My sister-in-law says its the wedding band first on your finger then the engagement ring. I think its the other way. Which way is it?

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  1. krystle nichole
    December 18th, 2009 at 20:08 | #1

    You always wear your wedding band closest to your heart, therefore it goes first and then the engagement ring. :)

  2. Jordyn
    December 19th, 2009 at 23:41 | #2

    Your engagement ring, then the wedding band. The order you got them.

  3. kagp2006
    December 21st, 2009 at 23:51 | #3

    Traditionally, the wedding band is worn closest to the heart. Because of this, most women slide their wedding band on first and then place the engagement ring on top of that. Many bridal sets and matched rings are soldered together, however, making this a moot point and entirely up to personal preference.

  4. Fiona
    December 23rd, 2009 at 05:51 | #4

    The wedding band is supposed to be closest to your heart. So it would be wedding on the inside and then your engagement ring.

  5. Garnet Glitter
    December 25th, 2009 at 16:48 | #5

    You put the wedding band on first, then the engagement ring…..that is what I was told by the pastor who married my ex and I (first marriage)

    The wedding band goes on first because 1) you sometimes remove the engagement ring but are technically always are supposed to wear the wedding band and this makes it easier…..the wedding band is the more important of the two thus it’s worn closest to the heart.

    SIL is right.

  6. Nic
    December 28th, 2009 at 19:09 | #6

    One your wedding day, you don’t wear your engagement ring when your new husband puts the wedding ring on your finger. Then, you put your engagement ring back on afterwards! Hope this clears up the confusion!

  7. Sweet_Di
    December 29th, 2009 at 14:27 | #7

    i have my wedding band on top of my engagement ring i like to better that way besides i want people to see that i am married . the other way around all they see is the engagement ring. there really is no rule i see people wearing them both ways, depends on you.

  8. Radzie
    December 29th, 2009 at 21:02 | #8

    Wedding band, then engagement ring

  9. Amy M
    January 1st, 2010 at 00:58 | #9

    The wedding band is on the inside as it means its closer to the heart. The engagement ring goes on the outside. Hope this helped.

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